Edoardo Guidali

I am very passionate about helping others express themselves in their intended way. Sounds easy, right? You may ask, why do I need someone to explain to me how to talk to my partner or my relatives?

Where do I start? Can you currently share everything with your parents or partner without being afraid of their reaction? Most people would answer positively. However, if we went deeper, we would find out that actually they’ve simply adapted to the situation and know very well which topics to avoid to keep everything "harmonious" and non-confrontational.

Let's take Ella as an example. She asked her husband 1000 times to help her with the dishes after dinner (and yes, it is never really about the dishes) but he always finds an excuse like "I had a long day at work" (-and I didn't?!- she thinks.) Ella probably gave up at some point and stopped asking, but that sense of invisibility and being ignored will stay with her. However, when you ask Ella "How is it going with Tom?", she will say that everything is "alright" because..... she does not have any other options (she thinks). She already told Tom and does not know how to change the situation.

This is also happens in many other situations:

• Children who are (often unconsciously) afraid to disappoint their parents by choosing a different educational path and end up doing something they don't like, or that even makes them physically ill.
• Wives that would like to know why their husband feels bad at work, but their husbands are too proud to talk about it.
• Friends and collegues that become people pleasers because they are afraid to look weird or stupid if they share their own opinion.

But if you ask, "It's all good" they say.

So many of these issues get tucked away in a drawer and continue to pile up, even if forgotten. And they have a huge impact on our lives, relationships, wellbeing, mental health, our authenticity and the life path that we choose to take.

My purpose is to help people understand that there is a way to say their opinion without being afraid of judgement or of being abandoned. That they can make their voices heard without looking stupid. That they are worthy.

I know these struggles personally, as I faced them with my family and in my relationships. I was in a place of hopelessness, like so many others, and I decided to change the situation. I got my family to talk and face all of our issues, even when many family members were absolutely sure that the situation was impossible to remedy and that it would all end in a catastrophe. There were tears, hugs and difficult words to say, but in the end, they brought us closer together, and we are now much happier than we ever were. I worked on improving my relationships, even when the best choice was to leave the toxic ones.

Since then, I felt a strong sense of purpose to show others that the impossible is actually possible. In the summer of 2024, I funded my company, and since then, I have dedicated my life to help people in their relationships.

I would be incredibly happy to be part of your podcast, to share with your audience the wonders of communication, inspire people, give them hope and help them feel better in their relationships.

I am looking forward to connecting with you!